{"id":2986,"date":"2018-01-12T14:30:20","date_gmt":"2018-01-12T14:30:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.crystalherbs.com\/blog\/?p=2986"},"modified":"2023-02-20T16:32:01","modified_gmt":"2023-02-20T16:32:01","slug":"reclaiming-personal-authority","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.crystalherbs.com\/index.php\/personal-spiritual-growth\/reclaiming-personal-authority\/","title":{"rendered":"Reclaiming Your Personal Authority"},"content":{"rendered":"<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/images\/flowers\/Luffa-Flower.jpg\" alt=\"Luffa Flower\" class=\"imageRight\" \/>\r\n<p>January is often a time when we pause to review where we are in life as  well as setting our direction for the coming twelve months. The energies are  currently directing us to review our foundations in life to ensure that they  will fully support the process of transformation that we will be engaged with  over the coming twelve months.<\/p>\r\n<p>A particularly important aspect of our foundation that we could consider  as we check in this month is that of <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.crystalherbs.com\/index.php\/personal-spiritual-growth\/strengthening-personal-authority-essence-suggestions\/\">personal authority<\/a>. A good question to ask  yourself might be; <em>how much do I occupy  the driving seat of my life?<\/em> For many of us this is still somewhat of a  work in progress and something that the energy flow this month could well bring  into greater awareness.<\/p>\r\n<h2>Check Your Family Patterns<\/h2>\r\n<p>If you find that you struggle to fully be the authority in your own  life, inherited family patterns can be a good place to look for the source of  any unconscious restriction to your personal power.<\/p>\r\n<div class=\"quoteBk1\"><p>If you find that you constantly struggle to be the authority figure in your own life, check out unconscious family patterns for the source of the restriction in your personal power.<\/p><\/div>\r\n<p> Family situations are chosen by design to offer maximum growth and  expansion for everyone involved, although it might not feel like that if we  find ourselves at the sharp end of difficult and challenging relationships. Sometimes  the patterns we agreed to play out in our family group involved closing  ourselves down and giving up our seniority in order to fit in.<\/p>\r\n<p> While this may  have seemed necessary at the time it is now no longer valid, and it is very  much time for us to take back our power and become the authority in our own  life. <\/p>\r\n<h2>Making Change<\/h2>\r\n<p>Reclaiming our personal authority might involve overturning some family  taboos or standing up for ourselves in a way that feels initially  uncomfortable. It might also mean accepting that we are not responsible for  keeping the peace or making everything alright for everybody else at the  expense of ourselves. Above all it means giving ourselves permission to be  ourselves without restriction.<\/p>\r\n<p> Remember that the process of change is not about ego power struggles,  blame or judgement it is just a simple choice to release any unconscious  patterns that you might have that keep you acting out old, disempowering  behaviour loops. <\/p>\r\n<p>Connect to the consciousness of your heart and allow your  wisdom and intuition to guide you as you make any necessary adjustments this  month. <\/p>\r\n<h4>See also: Video: Let Your Heart Be Your Guide \u2013 Staying in Your Heart<\/h4>\r\n<p>Join Catherine &amp; Jackie from Crystal Herbs for this heartfelt   conversation about allowing your heart to be your guide. We describe how   it feels when you&rsquo;re in your heart and the reasons why it can be   difficult to stay in that space.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/spiritual-growth.crystalherbs.com\/index.php\/remembering-your-true-self\/video-let-heart-guide-staying-heart\/\">Let Your Heart Be Your Guide \u2013 Staying in Your Heart <\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\">January is often a time when we pause to review where we are in life as well as setting our direction for the coming twelve months. 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