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Essence Suggestions for January

Essences to help with the Energies through January

Clarity Essence

Letting Go Essence

A really useful essence helping you to work with emotional pain, perhaps caused by separation, divorce or bereavement. Also good if you are too emotionally attached, clinging to old relationships or seeking love. The Letting Go Essence helps you to gently release old emotional pain leaving you stronger and more able to create truly loving relationships.

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With the energy flow this month so encouraging of the further unravelling of old patterns and agreements let’s take a look at some of the issues we might encounter in this process together with some appropriately supportive essence combinations.

As our old agreements with each other begin to break down the component parts of those agreements begin to become more obvious to us. If you take a moment to look at the energetic dynamics of your own birth family you will probably be able to see quite clearly what you have chosen to play out together, as well as how that imprint has been passed down from one generation to another. Without judgement observe what your particular themes are and how your own patterns have contributed to holding the agreement together. Notice whether there are still things within these dynamics that could potentially pull you back into playing out old patterns.

One of the most common issues that we currently see coming to the surface in this respect relates to the ability for us to own our personal power. Certainly nothing breaks down outworn agreements quicker than choosing to step out of old disempowering ways of exchanging energy, however this can be difficult to do if we do not have a strong sense of ourselves energetically. So with this in mind our first essence suggestion this month is the Solar Plexus Chakra combination, helpful for everyone needing support to strengthen their energetic boundaries or counteract feelings of over sensitivity and the effects of living in a disempowering environment.

Over sensitivity is a big issue for many people when it comes to owning their personal power. Often these people have chosen to manage this uncomfortable situation by agreeing to become the peace keepers and ‘fixers’ in a family because they find disharmony so disagreeable. As old agreements break down they are recognising just how much of a ‘one way’ energy street this has been and how much they have lost themselves in the process. Feelings of anger, resentment, vulnerability and exhaustion often accompany this recognition. In this situation Inner Peace; transforming anger, Self Responsibility; transforming resentment and Auric Protection; creating safe boundaries or Auric Protection Spray; safe boundaries would all be supportive combinations to help bring about greater balance.

Relationships are another important area in which the effects of unravelling agreements are currently being strongly felt. Many relationships based on old agreements are simply ending, sometimes quite abruptly. Often these are relationships that have been based on mutual co-dependency and disempowerment. If you should find yourself needing to clear away the remnants of an old co-dependent relationship this month then the Letting Go; dissolving attachment combination would be just what you need to help you move forward with ease.

Still in the field of relationships there is currently a huge unravelling of the old patterns that underlie abusive relationships of all kinds. For anyone reclaiming their power from this kind of relationship the Healing Abuse; dissolving trauma combination is for you.

Lastly, the energies of Capricorn can often highlight where we still carry unconscious survival fears and in the current climate of change this could feel temporarily quite uncomfortable if we do not recognise what is happening. So in this situation, either Inner Calm; dissolving fear, Feeling Safe; trusting life, Base Chakra or our ever popular Strength & Courage Spray; overcoming fear, would quickly help you to find greater balance.


Choosing Your Essence – if there is a specific issue that you would like help with that has not been mentioned above, please use our Essence Selector or give us a call/ email for some help and advice.



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