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Healing Relationships – Essence Suggestions

Essences to help promote balance in relationships of all kinds.

Iceberg Rose

Balancing the Male / Female Partnership

The relationship between our inner male and female polarities provides the foundation upon which all our outer relationships are built, so let’s start by looking at essences that promote greater balance in these important aspects of ourselves.

Balance in any relationship situation requires that both parties be equal and empowered. You may well find that neither your feminine nor your masculine aspects are completely in this place and that there is a need to work with each aspect individually before a better partnership can be created.

In this situation Female Essence; strengthening feminine or Mother will help you balance and strengthen the qualities of your inner feminine, while Male Essence; strengthening masculine or Father will do the same for your inner masculine energy. When these aspects feel balanced and secure within themselves then choose either Inner Unity; male/female integration or Integration to help them work more fully together as a team.

Relationships Are a Wonderful Mirror

Healing Relationships Essence

Healing Relationships

A really good combination for if you have difficulty with intimate relationships, a lack of closeness and intimacy or an inability to trust in the relationship. It helps to promote greater intimacy & trust in relationships, dissolves defence patterns and supports the ability to build loving open hearted relationships.

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Our relationships always provide us with a wonderful mirror in which to view ourselves. If you find yourself triggered by a relationship situation, take a breath, step back and look at what is being reflected to you.

Possibly you will recognise the trigger as an old one that you have worked on many times before. Celebrate this and without judgement own what you see, then if necessary choose an essence that will help you address the issue. Here are a few suggestions for essence combinations that might be particularly helpful.

For support to deal with issues arising from ongoing relationship situations checkout Loving Communication; honest self-expression, Healing Relationships; restoring intimacy & trust & Healing Family; resolving family issues to see which would most help you.

One of our most popular essences over the years has been our Letting Go combination. It has helped so many people release old emotional ties and worn out relationships. Checkout Letting Go; dissolving attachment, if you should find yourself needing to draw a relationship to a conclusion.

Volatile Relationship Situations

Vibrations that can easily be triggered off in volatile relationship situations include anger, resentment and impatience as well as judgement & intolerance. Inner Peace; transforming anger, Self-Responsibility; transforming resentment, Restoring Patience; transforming impatience and Inner Freedom; transforming judgement are the essence combinations that will help dissolve these uncomfortable vibrations.

Heart Chakra Essence

Working With Our Deepest Wounds

Often, difficulties in relationships can touch our deepest wounds and tempt us to close off our heart in the mistaken belief that this will keep us safe. However great the temptation not to, remember that staying in your heart will always provide better solutions/outcomes in the long run, so here are a few suggestions for essences to support you with doing this. Checkout Inner Wisdom; connecting heart & mind, Unconditional Love, Heart Chakra and Heart Connection Spray; living in love, to see which would most help you.



Choosing Your Essence – if there is a specific issue that you would like help with that has not been mentioned above, please use our Essence Selector or give us a call/ email for some help and advice.


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